the post you reblogged that says “gay culture is trying to telepathically communicate to visibly gay people you see in public that you’re one of them” is made by one of the most extreme gatekeepers I have ever seen, who doesn’t believe that you belong in the community unless you’re gay, lesbian, or currently dating with somebody of your own gender, and they’re a terf to boot

oh i totally didn’t realize– thank you for letting me know