Hey Sooo I’ve been struggling with my sexuality since puberty first thinking I’m gay then bi then pan but mostly not really being into sex at all. I just like people, I don’t want to sleep with them usually. I am interested in sex I just don’t understand it and I’m not sure if that’s why I don’t want it.. like am I just afraid to make a fool out of myself? Is it just my mental health issues and self hatred that make me not want to get close to anyone physically? How do I know I’m ace? Help pls

as far as im aware, there’s not much correlation between a person’s mental health and their sexuality and/or feelings about sex.

just don’t be pressured into finding a label for yourself. don’t be afraid to experiment a little, but at the same time be aware of your boundaries and your comfort levels. 

also, remember your attitude towards sex doesn’t determine your sexuality. many aces are sex positive, and want/enjoy sex. they aren’t any less ace than the sex repulsed ones

-kai

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