Hi! I’m questioning, and I’m still sort of confused about the experience of having crushes vs squishes, and feeling sexual vs aesthetic attraction. So whenever I c this person, or if they’re brought up in convo, my heart beats faster. I think about our interactions after they’re over, and one time after they got a haircut I blushed bc I thought they looked good with it (can you blush when you exp aesthetic?) I’d like to get closer to them, but not sure if if it’s romantic or platonic?

i’d try to imagine yourself doing romantic things with that person, and your reaction based on that is a good indicator. if you’re repulsed, then you’re probably not romantically attracted.

-kai

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