For the virginity anon- Hi! Fellow sex-repulsed ace here. Virginity is 100% a cultural construct. Most say it’s about P-in-V sex and/or a woman’s hymen breaking (wildly heteronormative & sexist). Some people might also define it as any sort of genital contact or even kissing. BUT the important thing to remember is, it’s all made up! If you want to consider yourself a virgin you can! And either way, it doesn’t affect your aceness, sex-repulsion OR your worth as a person! Take care, lovely ❤︎

thank you for your addition!