To all those who send asks wondering if they can do any manner of things and still be asexual: yes. If you’re asexual, you’re asexual. There are aces of all kinds, and you don’t have to hate sex or never think about sex or never do anything sexual in order to be asexual. I’m not here to tell you, “You write about
sex? Well, sorry, you can’t be asexual.” That would be ridiculous!! Asexuals aren’t all one kind of person, and we don’t all have one kind of opinion of sex or experience with sex. So, if you want to ask, “Am I still asexual if…?” The answer is yes. You are still asexual.