Thank you for helping answer my question! The responses have all been wonderfully reassuring, the stigma around sexual relationship had really confused me. I absolutely relate to wanting to make my bf happy, and I have a strong desire for intimacy and connecting. I think I fall under demi/gray/ace, but I also don't feel personally attached to labels. Is that okay too? – Anon asking about ace intimacy
I’m really glad we could help and thanks to everyone else who did, you people are great!
And yes of course, you don’t need to use labels or if you do they can be as unspecific as queer or as specific as demiromantic lesbian ace (that’s me). Just go with whatever feels the most comfortable
– Mod Fiona