Today we’re joined by Tamare Rosemov. Tamare is a wonderful poet who hopes to publish his poetry one day. He writes mostly short free verse poetry and has sometimes posted it publicly. He is clearly a dedicated and passionate writer as you’ll soon read. My thanks to him for taking the time to participate in this interview.
Please, tell us about
I write short free verse poetry which I sometimes post publicly.
I usually only share my poetry with a couple close friends, although I do hope
to get published someday.
What inspires you?
My emotions are the basis for my work as well as my greatest
inspiration. I love the way that poetry can aid in the struggle against the impermanence
of life – a small burst of joy or sorrow can retain its original vigor when
expressed in a few meaningful phrases. This urge to commemorate my favorite
moments and feelings inspires me as strongly as emotion itself.
What got you
interested in your field? Have you
always wanted to be an artist?
My interest in poetry increased significantly when I was hit
with depression. I discovered that poetry could be a wonderful coping mechanism
for making sense of the emotions and problems that haunted me. As for being an
artist, it was never on my mind until I realized that I need art in my life,
and perhaps it might become part of my professional career in the future.
Do you have any kind
of special or unique signature, symbol, or feature you include in your work
that you’d be willing to reveal?
My favorite poems include sea imagery. I grew up in a small
European seaside town, and the sea remains to me the ultimate object of
nostalgia as well as a metaphor for many parts of my life.
What advice would you
give young aspiring artists?
Don’t give up on art even if you’re afraid of criticism or a
lack of creativity. I think we all have that desire in us; the desire to
express ourselves, and we all encounter stimuli that inspire us to create. So
even if your art does not fit somebody’s standard, if it makes you feel more
whole, keep on creating.
Where on the spectrum
do you identify?
I identify as a heteroromantic asexual, and until recently I
thought I was just an extremely innocent heterosexual. It still shocks me that
I’m that different from the person I always considered myself to be.
Have you encountered
any kind of ace prejudice or ignorance in your field? If so, how do you handle it?
I have not encountered much prejudice, and I acknowledge that
I am privileged in that aspect. The worst I’ve encountered is ignorance because
I haven’t come out to many people for fear of damaging my relationships.
What’s the most
common misconception about asexuality that you’ve encountered?
Probably the idea that asexuals don’t exist. It’s annoying
when someone seems to accept my asexuality but then proclaims smugly, “You’re
just very pure”, “Everyone wants sex”, or “You’re just too shy to express your
dirty thoughts”. I know how I feel, and even though I’m still getting used to
it, I am an asexual and asexuality is a valid identity.
What advice would you
give to any asexual individuals out there who might be struggling with their
Don’t be ashamed of who you truly are. Sexuality is as deep
as the human mind, and the human mind is an enigma. We might never know why our
minds work the way they do, but what we do know is that our minds can create,
think, analyze, love. So, no matter what your sexuality is, love yourself.
Finally, where can
people find out more about your work?
I post my bad and good poetry at https://allpoetry.com/BlueCandlelight;
Thank you, Tamare, for participating in this interview and this project. It’s very much appreciated.