for the ace and aro lesbians who feel isolated, torn between two parts of your identity, you are not alone. you can belong both in ace/aro spaces and in wlw spaces. you shouldn’t have to be forced to choose, shouldn’t have to face any stigma and feel like only part of you is acceptable. all aspects of your orientation are wonderful just as they are. you are not selfish or broken, you are not incapable of healthy relationships, whether or not they are romantic ones.