Author: Asexual Humor!

aro-mood: is it just me

aro-mood:

is it just me

zapsi: Happy #AceDay! May 8th is Ace Visibili…

zapsi:

Happy #AceDay! 

May 8th is Ace Visibility Day. You might see some people posting playing cards all over their blogs, and here’s why: each card represents a different part of the Asexual spectrum!

  • ♥ Ace of Hearts: Alloromantic Asexual – experiences romantic attraction regularly toward one or more genders. This includes orientations such as heteroromantic, homoromantic, biromantic, polyromantic, and panromantic.

  • ♠ Ace of Spades: Aromantic Asexual – does not experience romantic attraction toward any gender.

  • Ace of Diamonds: Demiromantic/Demisexual & Grey-aromantic/Grey-Asexual– Experiences romantic and/or sexual attraction only if a strong emotional bond is established. OR Experiences romantic/sexual attraction rarely, not strongly enough to act on, only under specific circumstances, or fluctuates between periods of experiencing attraction and not experiencing it.

  • Ace of Clubs: Questioning/Unsure of Orientation – Aware they fall on the aromantic and/or asexual spectrum, but not sure where.

For more information about Asexuality, you might want to check out AVEN: The Asexuality Visibility and Education Network.

actual-ace-trash:

actual-ace-trash:

reblog if ur a free and gentle ultra ace

ARTICLE  13  HAS BEEN CHANGED TO THE WORST!

masochist-incarnate:

lunastarward:

gracyfangirl2020:

THIS WEEK  Article 13  HAS BEEN CHANGED COMPLETELY!

WILL BE BLOCKED BECAUSE of SOME OLD POLITICIANS “that know the youth and the internet the best then anyone else”  IN THE SENATE THINKING THEY KNOW BETTER SHUTTING DOWN YOUTUBE AND OTHER SOCIAL PLATFORMS FOR ME AND PEOPLE LIVING IN THE EU   FOREVER!

PLEASEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE I REPEAT THE ARTICLE HAS BEEN CHANGED COMPLETELY NO FUCKING JOKE GUYS! LAST TIME IT WAS ALL ABOUT PROTECTION NOW THEY ADDED SOME STUPID STUFF AND THEY WILL BE TAKING AWAY MY YOUTUBE; SOCIAL MEDIAS AND EVERYTHING!

PLEASE SIGN UP IN THIS PETITION  IF WE DON´T HIT  5  MILLION GERMANY AND SO MANY EUROPE COUNTRIES WILL LOSE THEIR SOCIAL AND MORE!

SHARE THIS POST AND SIGN UP AND VOTE THE MORE THAN BETTER! Let’s SHOW THESE OLD PEOPLE THAT YOUTUBE,  TUMBLR, INSTAGRAM AND ALL THESE GREAT OTHER SITES AREN´T FUCKING USELESS AND SHET BECAUSE THEY DO NOT KNOW WHAT SOCIAL MEDIA IS! INSTEAD OF TAKING THESE PRECIOUS THINGS THEY SHOULD WORRY ABOUT OTHER.STUFF ( Migrants, new school system)  BUT NAH THEY WANT TO TAKE AWAY OUR SOCIAL MEDIAS

I REPEAT article 13  HAS COMPLETED CHANGED AND IN A FEW MONTHS IT WILL TAKE AWAY OUR SOCIAL media LIKE TUMBLR AND YOUTUBE HERE IN EUROPE PLEASE SIGN UP FOR US GUYS I BEG YOU! 

here are the links:

ENGLISH:https://www.change.org/p/european-parliament-stop-the-censorship-machinery-save-the-internet

GERMAN:https://www.change.org/p/stoppt-die-zensurmaschine-rettet-das-internet-uploadfilter

DUTCH:https://www.change.org/p/het-internet-is-in-gevaar-en-jij-kunt-het-redden

ROMANIAN:https://www.change.org/p/internetul-este-%C3%AEn-pericol-iar-tu-%C3%AEl-po%C8%9Bi-salva

SPAIN: https://www.change.org/p/european-parliament-deten-la-m%C3%A1quina-de-la-censura-salva-internet

PLEASE HELP US GUYS I BEG YOU and  PLEASE! reblog IT ISN´T ANYMORE A JOKE THEY HAVE COMPLETELY TURNED THE ARTICLE AROUND FOR THE WORST THIS WEEK!

YO NON-EUROPEANS CAN ALSO SIGN GET IN LINE FOR YOUR EURPOEAN HOMIES GUYS CMON

PLEASE HELP THEM

korrasera: nonbinarypastels: [Image Descripti…

korrasera:

nonbinarypastels:

[Image Description: Screenshots of a series of tweets by a user named @valeriehalla that read

  • ok: i’m scared to exist online right now, even in what we should be able to consider safe spaces for queer folks
  • i’m scared because we are all watching continually as more and more of us are violently picked off and destroyed
  • by other queer folks, and by people who claim to be sympathetic to us, utilizing the same rhetoric that should be helping and empowering us
  • the word “discourse”, at this point, is only ever used sarcastically and with a kind of quiet dread by my friends
  • we joke about being problematic, but me, my peers and maybe you too, live in a state of constant low anxiety
  • over the fact that we don’t get second chances to make mistakes. if you’re a queer person of any kind of visibility, it’s one and done
  • the well of patience and compassion runs deep for our cis/straight allies, and we reserve NOTHING for ourselves
  • this is assuming you even make a mistake. we target each other for complete bullshit just as often
  • weeks ago i was chased off twitter for using the word “queer”, before that i was getting death threats over fabricated purity politics
  • friends of mine have been targeted with callout posts over things they didn’t do or for weird fandom drama with zero material impact
  • i’m not trying to absolve any of us of guilt. we’ve all done and will do wrong things, we’ll hurt each other, again and again
  • it’s easy, because we’re all a little bit fucked up over here. we’re carrying wounds we’re weird, we’re not always presentable
  • but that’s exactly why we need patience and compassion for each other more than anything else
  • because those wounds make it so easy for us to destroy eachother, and some of y’all may be tempted
  • it’s easier. when it’s some 20-something queer artist struggling to meet half the poverty line, it’s easy to run them off for hurting you
  • i GET why it’s tempting for some folks, because this is power that you can exert, a situation you can change
  • when we’re all so tired and so used to being powerless
  • but please understand that the folks you’re targeting may not come back from it. they may not ever come back. it’s happened, it will happen
  • when you mark someone as unsaveable and irredeemable in the only space they have to exist in, they can’t exist anymore

End of tweets.]

Just to make something about this crystal clear, and this is something that I think many people will recognize about these tweets, the situations that valeriehalla is describing aren’t just the result of people punishing honest mistakes. Some of these things are straight up authoritarian bullshit perpetrated by people who are trying to create power structures in the LGBTQ+ community.

This is what it means to be a TERF, a transmedicalist/truscum, or an ace exclusionist. This is the environment they’re trying to build, one where other people in the LGBTQ+ community have to live with fear and anxiety of the kind of authoritarian bullying that these people try to create.

It’s really important to push back on this stuff anytime we see it, because authoritarians actively work to spread their malfeasant ideology. They lie and manipulate in order to spread their message because they honestly believe that anything, no matter how immoral, is justified in pursuit of their core goals. And their core goals always involve hurting us, all of us. They only see three types of people; those that agree with them and are allies, those that don’t agree with them and are enemies, and those people who they hate and will only ever attack.

We fight them by not letting them get away with it. We fight them by educating people about their tactics and their evil. We fight them by protecting those of us who are young enough or immature enough to still be vulnerable to their recruitment tactics. And we win by never giving them an inch, ever.

In a fight where one side believes only in the oppression and eventual destruction of the other, there’s no middle ground to be found, they are wholly wrong in their beliefs and they’re willing to hurt people in service to them.

Big Name Recognition of Asexual Awareness Week

redbeardace:

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GLSEN: https://twitter.com/GLSEN/status/1055081729722105862

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Manchester Pride: https://twitter.com/ManchesterPride/status/1055111776403099649

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Trevor Project: https://twitter.com/TrevorProject/status/1055206044782288896

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Sex, etc: https://twitter.com/Sexetc/status/1055547039713558528

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The Kinsey Institute: https://twitter.com/kinseyinstitute/status/1054423267023482880

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Bitch Media: https://twitter.com/BitchMedia/status/1055202511974481921

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NYC Pride: https://twitter.com/NYCPride/status/1055105916582981632

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Gay Star Newshttps://twitter.com/gaystarnews/status/1055448894543458304

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Galop: https://twitter.com/GalopUK/status/1055036174530531328

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Huffington Post: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/opinion-asexual-people-doctors_us_5bcccfd6e4b0d38b58796672?ide

The Daily Dot: https://twitter.com/dailydot/status/1055429768428974080

UCLA: https://twitter.com/UCLALGBT/status/1055142301809459206

Reblog with any that I missed!

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achievement-tooths-archive:

Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender are not the “main” non cis, non straight identities. Queer, pansexual, polysexual, every nonbinary identity, agender, genderqueer, genderfluid, asexual, aromantic, every aspec identity, and every other non cis or het orientation are not variants, modifiers, or subsets of lesbian, gay, bi, and trans. They are unique, standalone identities and deserve to be respected as such.

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fuckyeahasexual:

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generallydiscourse:

inclusionistpropaganda:

homoph0bics:

inclusionists have never heard of systematic oppression and think oppression is the same as personal struggle and thats the tea for today

i wish i was as privileged as aphobes i assume i am

You know what’s the fun part? This is the exact rhetoric that’s used to tell people who suffer from systematic oppression that it doesn’t exist, that everything they’ve experienced is just an example of personal struggle, and that individual stories aren’t important until it reaches an unspecified number of similar stories.

Personal stories are an important part of explaining oppression, and I hope to fuck you start to realize that a lot of us have experienced oppression and know what the fuck we’re talking about- because unlike what you assume inclusionists aren’t just white, cishet, abled, and NT.

Take your “oppression fantasy” echoing rhetoric and think long and hard on it.

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spoopsalamander:

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Yay pride flags! 😀 

(The video this is from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ehxCDvnfj7U&t=0s)