Category: aro

Regular

arotaro:

Yo, in light of the recent discourse I want to say something:

The treatment of aros by aces is an intracommunity issue. If you’re not aspec, you do not get to criticize the ace community in this issue, and you especially do not get to use it as leverage to treat aces badly. And if any of you exclusionshits think you can use this to convince us to join you, you’re dead wrong. None of us have any delusions of bastards like you actually giving a shit about us, none of us would turn our backs on the ace community, and I hope you step on a lego and fall face first into a toilet. Thanks!

Regular

dorkbunny:

aroacejokes:

an-asexual-aries:

official-cisphobe:

kinguteresa:

I say we make pizza the trademark aro food

  • it’s round but eaten in triangles, like cake for aces, showing our similarity and unity as one whole a-spec community
  • it’s savoury compared to being sweet, like cake that aces have, showing the differences in our identities and comunites
  • it tastes nice, like cake, and I’d rather have pizza than a date
  • I really hecking like pizza ok

thank you for listening

as a pizza loving aro I support this

@bunnigay @aroacejokes @aroacemusicallover Thoughts?

Yes!

yes.

cakes for aces. pizza for aros.

pizza-flavored cakes for aroaces.

Why not pizza AND cake for aroaces

Both is good.

And pizza flavoured cake is like a French Quiche!

Regular

aroacejokes:

an-asexual-aries:

official-cisphobe:

kinguteresa:

I say we make pizza the trademark aro food

  • it’s round but eaten in triangles, like cake for aces, showing our similarity and unity as one whole a-spec community
  • it’s savoury compared to being sweet, like cake that aces have, showing the differences in our identities and comunites
  • it tastes nice, like cake, and I’d rather have pizza than a date
  • I really hecking like pizza ok

thank you for listening

as a pizza loving aro I support this

@bunnigay @aroacejokes @aroacemusicallover Thoughts?

Yes!

Jughead Jones!!!

Jughead Jones!!!

slams pots and pans HE’S ARO ACE

Seeking feedback on a new ace & aro educationa…

asexualoutreach:

Our team has put together a new introductory brochure on aromanticism and asexuality, and we’d love to get your feedback before we send it off to
the printers! Any thoughts or suggestions?

(The
current design is geared toward professional printing, but we will also
be releasing a home-printer friendly version in February.)

https://drive.google.com/open?id=1ulVrCjgtoBtH7tpQvxk_ETvZEwJ79UwT

3 people explain what it’s really like to be a…

3 people explain what it’s really like to be aromantic:

toofarforgotten90:

I was one of the people interviewed for this.

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nonbinarychildofapollo: Since people don’t see…

nonbinarychildofapollo:

Since people don’t seem to understand why aces and aros are LGBT+ and not cishet, I made this. The credit in the corner there is my Instagram btw.

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spacezeros: spacezeros: wanting and not wanti…

spacezeros:

spacezeros:

wanting and not wanting at the same time

a comic for asexual awareness week

bringing this back today for the start of pride month. still overwhelmed by how well this comic went down and with how many people relate. it’s easy to think aro-ace people are all totally accepting of their identities and really proud of who they are. i guess on websites like this you see a lot of people proudly putting their identity in their bio, a flag in their profile picture.

in fact i think a lot of aro-ace people really hate that part of themselves, hide it, and struggle for a long time to ‘accept’ who they are and feel any sense of ‘pride’. that’s the feeling i wanted to capture here. the disappointment, the loneliness, upon realising that you can’t feel what is such a wonderful thing. the embarrassment of not being ‘normal’, of being some random sexuality that nobody irl has heard of, and letting down those around you because you can’t be who they want you to be. how desperately you want to change, how desperately you want to feel. but you just can’t.

i know not all aro-ace people feel like this. i know lots of aro and/or ace people feel able to be in relationships, to feel closeness and have partners in other ways. but i think it’s important to be aware that some aro-ace people do feel like this.

the comments on this comic have mostly been great but a few have been very frustrating. a comment it got a lot was along the lines of ‘aw!! you don’t need to have sex to be in a relationship!’. you completely missed the point, hah. this is not a comic about sex. it’s about a lack of feeling, the lack of something beautiful other people seem to have. another comment that popped up a few times was ‘maybe she’s a lesbian’. well maybe lesbians and aro/ace girls have more in common than people think – maybe they both often struggle to accept that they feel no attraction to men, even though society has conditioned them to do so, sometimes spending years trying to force themselves to like men in that way, when they just can’t.

this comic is called ‘wanting and not wanting at the same time’ because she wants to love. but when it comes down to the reality, she can’t fulfil the requirements of that. she wants to love someone forever, to get married and have children and grow old with her soulmate, but she doesn’t want it with this person. or that person. or anyone she meets or will ever meet. a sort of catch 22, i guess.

hope that makes sense. thanks for listening, and have a lovely pride month ❤️