a-specs who stim are so great! all of your stims are awesome, including your hand flapping, chewing, rocking, vocal stims, whatever your favorite stims are! they’re all good!
Just because you aren’t romantically attracted to someone, doesn’t mean you can’t love them.
It doesn’t mean you can’t be in a relationship.
It doesn’t mean that you can’t enjoy traditionally romantic or romantic-coded things.
It doesn’t mean that you’re limited in any way.
Your identity says nothing about what you enjoy, who you are with or how you feel about someone.
You do you, and let labels come later.
psssst, hey you! Yeah, you. Wanna know a secret?
You deserve love and respect as a demisexual person and shouldn’t settle for anything less than somebody who makes you happy and comfortable
Let 2018 be the year we end the self hate trend. Let 2018 be the year we stop laughing along to self hate jokes. No more “haha I’m so ugly” and no more reblogging posts like this with “lololol same”. No. Love yourselves. You are BEAUTIFUL and AMAZING and deserving of love.
If you’re asexual, you are beautiful and valid sorry I don’t make the rules