Aromantic, Gray-romantic, and Lithromantic stuff.
To clarify: the words for shame (häpeä) and second-hand embarrassment (myötähäpeä) are heavily connected in my native language, which is what sparked this conversation.
I have a rather strained relationship with my mother, to put it simply. I’m almost 30 and she still uses shame tactics to try and control me just like when I was small. I often heard things like “I can’t bring you anywhere because you embarrass us” and “you should be ashamed” while growing up, and if I protested, I was told how difficult I was. I still hear that from her regularly, and she always masks it as just worry to make me look like the bad guy. But: concern or worry doesn’t justify abuse, ever, not in any situation.
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unpopular opinion: as an ace, I don’t really like cake that much😬
oooooooo I’m telling…
no one because you are a strong independent ace who don’t need no cake!
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